After the birth of my first son, my postpartum recovery left much to be desired. As I moved through my postpartum period, I was overwhelmed, exhausted and blindsided by my physical recovery.
I felt so traumatized by my first birth and postpartum story that I was almost to the point where I didn’t want any more children.
“If I do this again…” I told myself, “things have to be completely different.”
And they sure were. After my second son was born, I felt radiant rejuvenated and energized. I felt empowered to take on any challenge and really leaned into my recovery season.
So what exactly made the difference between the two?
Half of it was of course, personal experience. I learned a lot about myself and about motherhood with my first.
Being a first time mom is a unique journey as you don’t know first hand all of the layers of becoming a mother. And learning and understanding what it is to be a mother comes with its share of growing pains.
But the other half of it was because I took time to create an extensive postpartum plan. A postpartum plan that started out as a thought, a wish, a dream a home and a vision.
I started with a postpartum vision board. Actually a vision board journal.
I thought about what my dream or ideal postpartum experience looked like, how I wanted to feel after I gave birth, how I wanted my home to feel, how I wanted my relationships to evolve and what steps I would need to take to achieve to reach my goals.
And I just wrote it all down. I got it out of my head and onto paper. And looked back at my scribblings often. Especially when I started to organize my postpartum plan.
My postpartum vision board kept me focused and helped me to manifest the most amazing and rejuvenating postpartum period for myself. And you can do it too!